My ex was better. But approach it as - I’ve learned this and understand.
My ex was better Loving humans is one of the most debilitating things anyone can do to themselves. When I was going through my breakup, I also worried that my ex was doing better than me. Kind, thoughtful, sweet, respects me, loves me, families get along and all the good stuff but when it comes to sex, it is nothing compared to my ex. But I find myself comparing him to my ex. Truly kind hearted. So you could say we ended on good terms. What Should I Do When My Ex Has A Better Life Than Me? 8 Step Solution. I saw my replacement (the new supply), when I went to visit him for closure. Blocking them was good for my sanity and I moved onto better friendships (she had been my friend when he cheated on me with her), better relationships (my husband's a doll), and a better I do have a good chunk of debt from the aftermath of the relationship from (reckless) overspending, that I’m now planning to pay off. Since I started working with my sexual energy, every year I have thought my sex life was the best it could ever be. It’s been so difficult these past couple of months, and I have no idea when the pain is going to stop. Great post - you’re so right about being able to do better and not someone who walks away when the going gets tough. If he's unwilling to do the work needed to get you off, well, that's a character that would be worthy of a dumping. I’m sorry and I hope everything’s going well after all I done to you. In my experience she started pulling away long before she gave up. And I didn't really give him a direct answer that he was looking for. My ex gf and I broke up 3 months ago. It sounds like you already know your putting way too much importance on a girls looks and how they stack up against your ex. I was miserable, so of course I hated seeing my ex My ex (22F) and I (23M) have been broken up for almost 9 months. After he dumped me he got these sexy ass braids and been posting it on social Finding out that her ex was better in bed is the last thing most guys want to hear. I recently found out that my boyfriend actually treated his ex better than me. Surely not personality wise, but I am clearly not unbiased right now. We don’t love everyone the same way. damn bro, you really let me down. Everyone else pales in comparison. Social media is really toxic for situations like this and is best to remove that person completely. I found it disrespectful that’s she was comparing my dick size to an ex of hers and the fact that she asked her sister excitingly how big her partner is. Reply reply So I’m f (22) and have been dating this guy (23) for 4 months. I recently saw him with his girlfriend. She said that sex with him was better, but more enjoyable with me because she felt more emotionally connected to me than him. She might not want to start over. Then my second ex decided we needed to take a break which was fine with both of us because we both agreed we should be better people. It didn’t help that I was 5 foot lmao. This is an apology letter. that is worst than being told that an ex was better in bed than you were. Hi J. I miss my ex rarely and I’m going to move cities soon, so I’m excited to meet new people and see new places. (Having accused me of cheating so many times, until I actually did. After a couple years. We deliver hundreds of new memes daily and much more humor anywhere you go. Same with my ex, he knew it but was super shy and never ever acted like he knew how good looking he was. My ex bragged to me that I was so much better than his exes and would do all kinds of things for me that were rediculous and insane (sleeping on the floor, paying for everything, taking me on expensive trips, meeting his family when his other "serious" gfs never did) My ex is a couple years younger than me. Training was top priority. So then he asked how my ex's were. The “upgraded” concern, however, also tells me more about the exact work we need to do togeth If you think your ex was the best romantic partner you were with emotionally and/or sexually, this is either because you haven't been with many people or because you FEEL your ex was the best you ever had. What id say is if your intention is to move on and find another partner you shouldn’t be keeping up with their socials. Being 190cm is more desirable than being 170cm in men. I just need to grieve the future I didn’t give a chance to, I guess. But we were still happy mostly while we’re together. I was 18, naive, too trusting. Hey. Never. So only go to her if you want to tell her these things for your own sake. My ex is currently in a similar situation, but its something a little more complex in terms of the idea of how we got to this point. It’s not necessarily that I neglected researching narcissists before; it’s just that I was Because my husband has an ex-girlfriend that I affectionately call the Dick Sucking Unicorn. TDLR: My ex's life got so much better as mine got so much worse. It can feel completely devastating. If my partner felt this way I would hope that they would have enough respect for me to tell me so I could leave and try to find someone who doesn't feel this way or leave me. This is what I’m dealing with. Don't mention that the ex was better, but you can be as communicative with him about what you like and how to do it. The first time was more of her idea, I was not really horny but she was pressuring me. Hello I’m new to this sub so sorry if I get any formatting wrong My (18M) Ex (18F) was and still is the prettiest girl I’ve ever met. My ex was a good guy and our love languages matched up. It doesn't make me think less of my husband. explore #my_ex_was_better_in at Facebook It certainly was rude and disrespectful of her to say that to you, but I don't think that means she is still in love/interested in her ex. The way I love my wife is different from the way I love my ex’s. I totally forgot what sex was like with my ex by the time I started with the next one. He's much nicer than my ex (who was emotionally abusive and mostly distant and never gave attention/affection), and he actually listens. And that’s okay. But it was a long time ago, and the memory has already faded. No one deserved to be treated like that and I’m [] My ex and I have remained friends up until the point that she started seeing someone new. I can't help comparing her to my ex, and I feel like my ex was better in every way. I wish him the best, and if he ever comes to this realisation as you did I'd be more than proud of him but I'd also choose what's best for me and stay away from him. I’ve heard all about her mouth skills and I’m seriously in awe of them. Recently she started seeing someone new and has just recently told me that he is way better in bed than I was. They’re always looking for someone better, it doesn’t matter who they’re with. He treated me awfully and I tried to stick it out, now I'm resentful for all the time I wasted, it seemed to benefit him so The fact that you believe your ex has upgraded to a newer, better version of you should be a red flag. Here’s a thought, she’ll never love you the same way she loved that person because now she’s jaded and afraid to expose herself the way she did. Yet, I am always in a toxic relationship or unhappy, struggling to finish college and get a career. And I don’t mean that looking at every human being as a hierarchy, and this is better, and this is better. The realization that my ex could have been the one to It was a big step for me, as in the past I couldnt get intimate with anyone because of my SA trauma. I broke up with him because he abused me and I needed to leave him quick. But I also didn't know any better, I only thought I did. But no way would I ever trade or risk my relationship with my husband for sex with the ex. Not that they’re with better people Apparently, she faced all the problems I had. I’m sorry you went through that pain. And well, compared the two. You just don’t want to feel like you deserved to be hurt and you may feel like it isn’t fair he is acting better. I told him about the guy I lost my virginity with and how big he was and that I didn't like it because it was extremely uncomfortable. But I am head over heels in love with my boyfriend and I really am much more attracted to my boyfriend than I ever was to my ex. Now I know from a mutual friend, who’s the gf of my ex’s best friend, that my ex had moved to a different state for his new job and been dating a new girl for the same amount time I’ve been dating my current partner. Don't get me wrong, he's SO kind. The TL;DR, she's in a relationship with someone who treats her better than I did but he's married with 2 kids and his wife doesn't know about it. In my case, my ex moved on fairly quickly more so for the rebound relationship so she doesn’t have to deal with the stress of the breakup. . It's a lot easier to check my depression without living with someone invalidating it because my trauma is different then theirs. He’s a much better father and person now. Not that I mind, my girlfriend got me into facetiming/calling more, it's just that unless we have something important to say we don't text each other. I swore I’d never be her, but here I am. I just went through the same feelings today coming across my ex’s profile pic on Facebook out of the blue and put me into a really sad mood because I still want to be with her etc. Today I’m a much better man & me and my ex have been single for some time & we’ve become good friends & neither of us have been with anyone since but the honesty is idk if she cares for me but I’m in love with her still & it’s torture not being able to say my feelings for her but the honest truth is I have to be a better man before I So, here’s a bit of background first. Also, find out why she was better and step up your game in the bedroom. He always drinks alcohol, goes out to bars throughout the week, and stop taking care of himself. com/channel/UC5ZRCrAJLBMkljwlPLfI8dQ/join When we were married my ex was an absent father and husband. This is coming from a 31 year old woman. We actually talk things out! That's a first to me - definitely very new to it. Now that we’re broken up (it’s even been about a year), I just can’t shake the idea that I’ll ever find anyone as attractive as her and it sucks. My ex did the same thing; however, I argued because I was trying to prove my worth and my value, which is a dumb move on my part. Yeah my ex was Eurasian, arguably the most attractive looking mix in the world (imo at least). She was smoking hot but she wasn’t perfect. I completely stopped thinking about other women because she was just that perfect to me. Your ex just has a different life than you and your judging yourself against her and it’s not fair. My ex didn’t deserve the heartbreak and I’ll never have another relationship as good as that one. Dear James, Looking back, I see the red flags. Your ex is emotionally detached and ready for the solo journey My ex was just like you, I had some good effects on him and he truly changed for the better in many aspects but it caused me my mental health and a lot of pain and time. I could have been explaining my feelings more and been less intense about what was going on. She lied in the past and my trust was cracked from that. He also asked me to make his tinder profile for him. When a client tells me their ex upgraded and asks me what to do, I immediately know the issue. Enjoy the moment and focus on better thing like where to take her next. Just know there are many good days to come. MY EX WAS BETTER IN BED PRANK ON GIRLFRIEND!! *SHE SNAPPED***TeamBran & Get This Video Up To 1000 Likes For More #REACTIONSJoin the #ProudFamily My ex was exactly my type, it was like she was handcrafted to be the most attractive woman possible to me. I saw him as the future dad of my kids, and a lifelong partner. if you let it eat you up then you may end up accepting that its "who you are" but it isnt as long as you try to change that part of yourself. 3 months ago my fiancée of then 4 months, 4 years together invited a few This is literally one of my biggest issues rn my ex is so damn hot, 100% my type, and I haven’t found a man that looks anywhere near as good looking as he does. All were chaotic and toxic. My ex’s base was attacked and one of his friends, a young man who he played poker with each night, was killed in front of him by shrapnel. And to answer your question, girlfriends tend to get better maybe not with looks but other aspects because you start to learn what you want and don't want from relationships. I completely 100% understand the script you speak of. It isn’t you wanting her hurt. And especially when it comes to your This is a definitive guide on what to do if your ex thinks they can do better than you. Ending things with him made my life immensely better, we were just so unhappy together. Criteria #1: How Quickly They Moved On. We are both 19. She proceeded to ask him about marriage (We had been taking about getting married and itvwas his idea) and he said its gonna be the worst mistake of his life. But I beat them all. My ex doesn't even exist in my mind as a sexy or pretty person anymore. We were long distance though, and a couple of weeks ago she left me for someone else. What if he said something along the lines of, Oh yeah I fit in my girlfriends vagina better because she was tighter. That’s almost unforgivable. I’m better looking, taller, muscles, outgoing personality, take my ex on cool adventures. We had plenty of aftercare, she made me feel better about my body and my penis and told me that it was fun even though I did not cum and neither did she. Then this girl hit me like a ton of bricks and totally changed my mind on thinking about a life mate. Communication wasn’t good on both sides and I could have worded things better when talking to her about how her actions hurt me. It depends on the context of the conversation I guess. I can’t even lie to myself that they were not attractive because they are. Don't decide/dictate who best suited for her. Sincerely, Zan. My ex dumped me around 5 months ago and I was in an immense amount of pain and confusion at the time. However if you keep going higher you will realise that even being 170cm is better than being 220 cm. My ex was my best friend for 10 years. If your ex broke up with you and is doing better without you, you need to know that he or she is expected to do better without you. I know I go in and out of being depressed. You were 23, selfish and knowing exactly how to manipulate people. You took the easy way out because you were still hurt and now she has to ex-bf who cheated on her and dumped her for another woman. When breaking up I mainly focused on her faults not mine. My ex has a baby with his new wife after promising me the exact same. He has told me that she was toxic a couple of times and he regretted being with her but I don't really know what he has done for her. I was and still am heartbroken and full of regret but I try and remember that we had many incompatibilities. End of this month I'm going on Erasmus to her country. To this day, my bf believes that I think he's small. If you want to get better ask her what feels good while you're engaged in it. Recently my boyfriend of almost four years now ex boyfriend left me. In general, getting older, more experienced, and with better self awareness has meant increasing improvement. My ex was something to me, I guess but that doesn't matter, however, she was stuck in her own pride and was visible to me while nearing the pitfall of our relationship. I still want my first love to be happy and well, and I am glad he is in a happy relationship last I heard. With my new gf I still think she's It’s just a matter of preference. Sex life can be improved whereas personality takes a lot more effort. We only dated for like 3 months and it hurts as if it was longer than that. I still love and care about my abusive ex boyfriend and want to help him become a better person We’ve been together for 4 years, he broke up with me a week ago. I know you’re still in love with me and that you’re still hurting over me but don’t, you shouldn’t. “Best friends last, girlfriends don’t,” he said and I bought it. And my next relationship was better, because I had better relationship skills and a better idea of what I wanted in a relationship. There are many good looking people but he was one of a kind. Lately I noticed my wife became distant so I was already a little suspicious. I think we are in My ex gf had same reaction when she dumbed me 8 years throw away just like that when asked why she just told me she didn't love me. Watch Erealist PRANK Nik By Telling Her His Ex Was Better In Bed! So I’m basically struggling with the unknown of my girlfriend either saying this ex of hers was the best sex or not. But approach it as - I’ve learned this and understand. When we weren't talking on the phone, we would be sending each other messages/memes constantly. I love him and I do appreciate him so much and I tell him this everyday. We are very close and I really think we have a bright future together. #Hisandhergotofamily #philadelphia #Roadto5k Wassup #Teamsteve I got Kim back lmaoo I told her that MY EX was better in bed !! LOL SHE WENT CRAZY! LMAOOO My ex always told me I was the perfect guy, that she wouldn't ever find someone better than me. I was sour and bitter for a long time but those feelings were holding me back from a good man who was trying to treat me right. It affected me and I only stood up for myself, for what's right, but maybe if I could have just humbled myself down and become better at conflict resolution, I would have not lost her. Don't Make The Mistakes I Did. So I'm thinking this is perfect I have motivation to become sober to save my relationship because I was completely head over heels for her and then one day she tells me shes seeing someone in a vague way and I was devastated and Honestly anytime I see my ex since we broke up. Even so, I can’t help feeling such hate and anger towards my ex with how he treated me. We dated for four years. This was over 6 months ago and to be honest, it didn’t make things better — my ex was super cold Thank you so much for watching! ♡ If you are new, my name is Miya and i post vlogs, beauty, and lifestyle videos! I appreciate every single one of you who wa My ex resented me and treated me like shit as a result. Some might prefer my ex’s younger look. What do I do? Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a month now. I would be furious! Not only has he told you, the ex is better in bed, he has also told friends and relatives. I mean people find relationships, generally speaking, as they age, which are better for them. I can't be. Unfortunately she truly was the best girl I've ever met. I thought the sex with my first boyfriend was the best i've ever had. Go to get if you think it will help you even if she rejects it. Otherwise clocks ticking tbh. youtube. I don't think there is anything you can actively do to overcome this. 2 of those years he was unemployed and I supported him and paid for everything. You didn't have to break her like that, she was willing to work on your relationship and communicate things. Watching your ex become the person you had always hoped they’d be can feel like a gut punch. Comparing girls to your ex sounds like a big sign that you're not totally over her yet and it's probably not the right time for you to be looking for a new girl. If I wrote down all the ways you’d hurt me in the last few years, I’d [] My ex was the most attractive person I've ever met, the best chemistry I've had with someone and super intelligent. My girlfriend also has people and dudes who try and hit on her and it bothers me but she doesn’t really do anything about it, BUT when her and her ex were together she blocked ME and really had no reason too I guess maybe I’m confused. All she did was look pretty and he would fall head over heels for her. I am 32 now. My ex ended our 6. Reply reply My ex has a larger penis than my husband. Not for my ex to see but for my potential future partner to see. I get your confused feelings and wanting that justification. Other than this one transgression, is he a good husband? If yes, then I would read him the riot act, tell him it had better not happen again, and let it go. I just got really high and was thinking about my past relationships. lying about your marital status is so bad. I can’t get rid of the feeling tho, that my ex was better than me. Likewise, I have ex that made my ex feel insecure, physically or financially. If she is telling you you're good then do not worry about like that. I felt this way too after my divorce. Wanting to hurt her partner, she said sex with her ex was better — and now that it's tanked their sex life, she's looking to make amends. I totally get where that insecurity comes from, but there are ways to handle it well. Reply. My 20's were filled with certain sports goals and I was devoid of any real relationship. Join this channel to get access to perks:https://www. Ever compare your boyfriends junk to any other mans. Someone said it's okay to feel the sex with an ex was better, and it is, but it's also okay to not want to be in a relationship with someone who feels that way. 1) You Are Trapped In A Narcissistic Abuse Cycle. The other reason I don’t believe the sex with your ex is as great as you think is that it’s likely you and your ex had a lot of problems – that’s why they’re your ex. They were talking about ex-boyfriends and how another mutual friend of them cheated on her husband with an ex-boyfriend because he was better in bed. Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder. Just give it a few more Why is my ex doing better than me? Your ex doesn’t necessarily have to have a better life to be doing better than you. During the time we were together our sex life was amazing! Trust me when I say there's always someone better or as good as. As much as I hate to admit it, I came out of my relationship much worse than my ex did, and this is why: I’m that girl who makes scenes in bars now. The entire relationship felt very toxic and mentally abusive, lots of lies and gaslighting; he is But now here's my problem: I cannot stop comparing how he treated her and how he treats me. I almost wish my Ex was that way, it would give SOME kind of ammo to help me move on. Until out of the blue she texted me saying she misses me and wishes I would move home, and it just broke me. ive been there but with my last best friend and though i still feel guilt, ive worked hard to become a better person and i will continue doing so for the As your situation. March 19, 2022 at 7:04 am. My ex took his ex to the same exact place he took me for my birthday. My wife has 20 ex 80% of them are better looking or educated, taller and financially set. She was also absolutely stunning, legitimately out of my league. He was my first everything and in falling in love with him, realized he was a narcissist. 214 points • 340 comments - Your daily dose of funny memes, reaction meme pictures, GIFs and videos. I’m now talking to someone new and it’s long distance because of lockdown and I’ve only seen her a few times and I’m finding it hard to compliment her on her looks too much and call her beautiful because it’s what I used to call my ex. My boyfriend and I have had this conversation before, and we both agreed that we have had "better looking" exes. I personally unfollowed my ex because I didn’t want to see her move on or really get caught up in these exact emotions. I just hope I’ll be a better person from The new girl I'm sleeping with/seeing isn't quite as hot as my ex, but everything else is way better. My Ex Was A Covert Narcissist. So, 2023 has really been the year of me diving into understanding narcissists. Every person is unique in their own ways. Every time I try to find someone better, I can’t put anybody else above him. My ex contacted me after 6 months yesterday as to explain herself of what happened, I'm not trying to make me the better guy or him a worse guy my entire problem is why is she changing herself so much for their relationship but wasn't even a little bit of that to me. And, social media had been a very glossy, wonderful snapshot of a far more complicated life they shared together. I trusted her so much, she was the sweetest most selfless person. So if she has an ex who really rocked her world, here are some of the things you should do. MY EX WAS BETTER IN BED PRANK ON HUSBAND!! *HE SNAPPED*Be sure to subscribe to our channel and turn on your post notifications to catch all the Bangers! Hey, you. use that guilt to become a better person. How to prove them wrong. He never wanted to travel or support me, he constantly called me stupid, and other things, despite the fact I learnt his language proficiently, paid my own way and have many qualifications and degrees under my belt. So idk - make of that what you want. He valued his business and status over us and so I made the decision to leave. And I’m realizing all of it just now. I asked him what about with me and he said its "pretty okayish". Less ego involved, the ability to see things in a long term perspective, having a record of wins to build a confidence in Fast forward to age 28 and I met my wife who is an amazing girl. It didn’t even pop I understand this. Zan. However, I just realized that after each break up, they end up doing really well - new job, better house, engaged, etc. If your ex began this new relationship within a month of your My last question for her was if she missed her ex. He could very well be lovebombing. In my experience, there are two pieces of criteria that will help you to determine if it is truly a rebound relationship. He told me he just wasn’t “feeling” it anymore and no longer felt a spark between us and didn’t think we could grow together anymore, despite always telling me he thought we were soulmates/wanted to marry me etc. I see the things that should’ve been signs to run the hell away and never take another glance. We will get through this. Your ex just needs to have lost feelings before you because a lack of romantic feelings prevents your ex Watching your ex become the person you had always hoped they’d be can feel like a gut punch. Couldn’t have cared less about her right? You‘ll reach that exact stage of indifference again eventually, especially when you fall in love with someone else again. Not many average people look like that. Everything from her body to her style and mannerisms was just everything I wanted as far as looks are concerned. I actually never met anyone who held my interest and I just thought I would never find that one. My ex was better in bed and it makes me feel like I’m missing something. But I don’t understand why she treated her ex so much better even though he was a piece of shit. I'm way better at relationships in my 50s then my 30s even. My ex is doing better than me Vent I'm not happy but I'm starting to stop being so confused about everything and I started being able to see the flaws in my ex. You’ll stop caring that your ex is doing better when YOU start doing better. My ex gf ended things after I got heated in an argument. By the way, your gf wanting you to meet her ex is a green flag. Translating to penis size, being an equivalent of 190 cm height in penis size is better than 220 cm height in penis size. Funny thing is your exactly right. For context: I (M22) dated Alex (F21) for a few months about four or five years ago. I find it hard to keep an erection most times. I had a couple of terrible dates between breaking up with my ex and meeting the love of my life, but entering into a relationship with someone who truly cares about me and my feelings made me realize how manipulative and abusive my ex was. I don't talk to him, I don't try to "rub in" the fact that I'm with somebody else and I hope he's in a better place too. Deep down I was hoping the divorce would be the thing to knock some sense into him so he would realise our kids were more important, which it has. When things end on a bad note, we usually want the other person to suffer. I finally let go of my feelings of jealousy and bitterness and more opportunities of living my life happily and healthily popped up. I treated you like shit. Accessibility statement Skip to main content. I (28f) dated my ex (27m)for 3 and a half years. I do vaguely remember that sex was better - that feeling of being fulled so completely. From what I heard, it sounds like she cares about size. As my girlfriend gave me all the reasons of why my ex was prettier and sexier than her, all I could think of how much I love my girlfriend and how sexy she is. Much better texter. Then my best friend asked him with whom he has had the best sex with and he said his ex name. My (25m) wife(26f) and I have been married for 5 years and she has always stayed friends with her ex(25m) but he lives in a different country so I didn’t think much of it. However, there were several things over the course of a few weeks that suggested she was not quite right and she never communicated these. 3 months ago I(28M) overheard a comment about how good my fiancées(30F) ex was in bed, now I’m trying to do better for her, and she doesn’t want to communicate her needs. Before then it was very amicable good conversation as we broke up due to distance and we didnt feel there was a reason to stop being friends. When I broke up with my ex, he didn't appear bothered, he actually thanked me because he wouldn't have done it himself. Shitty as fuck, I know. You deserve so much better. I confronted him and he convinced me it was better this way. From my experience, they don’t change their toxic ways. He ended up with someone else afterwards who is younger since my ex likes being in control. He’d do romantic things, compliment me and made me always feel special. (Mind you, I'm not being pretentious when I say this; please understand), but it doesn't matter. Unlike some other’s examples, I do acknowledge I made mistakes (nothing awful like cheating) but I tried my best to improve and make it better for her just to still be resented and treated like shit. people are capable of change if they want to change. This is the goal, but it takes a long ass marriage like yours to get there. I was glad as it was highly toxic and I was really unhappy, I know it was the right decision and that I deserve better but I just want some advice on how to stop missing her and keep myself motivated during the healing process. 5 year relationship and all the while he still had his ex on socials and they were still friends at the beginning of our relationship Well I don't know if my ex is doing better than me. My mind and focus is on my girlfriend, and there is no other woman in the world besides her. Learn how to move forward when their transformation triggers your deepest insecurities. It is for me and I’ll tell you why. TL;DR - My ex was much kinder, more loving, and more understanding than my current gf. I can’t find someone as handsome as he was. The problem is, I had some of the best sex of my life with my ex, and all I can think about when having sex with literally anyone else is my ex. It doesn’t have to be, though. You will definitely find someone that will be just as good, if not better than your ex. ️ My ex has also done some stalker things that “should” surprise me but once I consider the gist of our whole relationship Not saying I love or even like myself much now, but it's better. The superficial narcissistic ones anyway. She was precious to me, but she had baggages from her past where she brought it upon me. Well more specifics. My current wife is way less "experimental" in the bedroom than my ex-wife or previous girlfriends but no way in [h]ell would I ever hurt her by telling her something like that in that type of fashion And frankly, it does not matter to me as I married her for way more than sex - she is kind, generous, patient, super-Mom extraordinaire So you may not be the best she's ever have. I’m confused. You’re more than capable of doing the things your ex is doing which you think are “better”— maybe not the exact same way, but in your OWN way. I asked why she wanted to take him back, and she said that she was young and dumb and gave herself to people that didn’t deserve her because she was afraid to be alone. RK. Since we broke up, he got a new hairstyle that I told him to get when we were dating; but he refused. I know this sounds superficial, but I can’t get him off my mind. My girlfriends ex was better in bed than me. And every year, my sex life only gets better. My ex was very conventionally attractive and I felt like the luckiest guy in the world when we dated. Your ex isn’t better than you. My ex is doing better without me. How to deal with my girlfriend [21F] ex being better than me [22M]? I now that she loves me so much more than se ever loved him, because our relationship is much closer and personal and we had talked about this before but I can’t avoid feeling insecure. You are assuming he is okay based on IG which is fake. I don’t compare myself to the new guy, but if I had to I can easily say I believe I’m a better person than he is. Then the friend asked my wife if she had ever been tempted to cheat on me with (insert ex-boyfriend’s name), to which my wife replied saying hell no, that she would never risk our marraige like that. ydyrpf uzbd renz cblo ucqqgta xgljcidl kjkf prw cuz kzaxjp